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On the Mend, and So Thankful
by bradlocke
 Inside Mississippi State Sports
2 years ago | 1649 views | 9 9 comments | 11 11 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink
They had to take the doors off to get me out. The car is totaled.
They had to take the doors off to get me out. The car is totaled.
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I tend to be a private person, but I've had so many of you asking about me and praying for me, I figured y'all deserved an update on how I'm doing these days. Well, I'm doing a lot better than I was. I came home from the hospital Thursday, and that alone has lifted my spirits to new heights, to be able to be with my family in familiar surroundings, no longer tethered to tubes and IVs.

As I recently wrote on my personal blog, I'm very blessed to be here. I was driving to Starkville on Feb. 1 – for a basketball press conference – when the accident occurred. A guy in a white Ford decided to cross the highway and apparently never saw me. I swerved into the right lane but couldn't avoid him. He T-boned me and sent me spinning down Highway 45. Once I realized I'd stopped in the middle of the road, I got the car to the shoulder. My entire left side was wracked with pain and blood filled my vision, and breathing was difficult. Thankfully, the first person to stop and help was a lady in scrubs; not sure exactly what she did or where she worked, but she kept me calm until the ambulance arrived. Wish I could find her and thank her.

(The guy who hit me called 911. He was unhurt as far as I know.)

My injuries: broken collarbone, cracked rib, lacerated spleen, bruised lung. Yet I seemed to be ready to go home a week after the wreck. Then, while watching the Super Bowl, I had sudden, sharp pains in my chest. Turned out to be a blood clot, and there was fluid build-up on my left lung. That required a lovely chest tube that I had for eight days. As one of the doctors later told me, "You're very blessed that you're not dead."

I've come a long way since then. Despite being on blood thinners, my spleen is fine for now, although I can't do anything too strenuous, not even wrestling with my son. My lung capacity isn't 100 percent, but I can breathe just fine. The only thing really limiting me is this collarbone.

When will I be back to work? Not sure, but hopefully I won't have to wait until the collarbone is healed (typically takes 6-8 weeks). At some point I'll do what I can from a desk, and then get back into things full swing once i can drive again (and have a new car; my trusty little Honda Accord was totaled).

In my absence, guys like Parrish Alford, Paul Jones and Todd Vinyard have helped pick up the slack. And God bless my boss, John L. Pitts, who's probably logging even more hours than usual because we've got two vacant copy desk positions we're trying to fill.

My wonderful wife is nursing me back to full health, and I'm able to get around a good bit. I managed to make it to church yesterday; our friends there have been unbelievably supportive. They've watched/chauffeured our four kids and bring us supper every night.

The prayers and thoughts, though, are what have really strengthened me, more than anyone could imagine. I've heard from readers via Twitter, e-mail and the blog's Facebook page. Rick Stansbury and Greg Byrne both called me soon after the accident to see how I was doing. My fellow beat writers have shown me what good friends they are. The Mississippi State community has truly been there for me. So thanks to all of you for caring, and know that God has used you in a mighty way during this difficult time.

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Dawgaholics-United
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February 22, 2010
Brad, thanks for giving us some insight as to what happened. I think it helps to share these things. I had a similar accident on hwy 27 (north of Chattanooga) in 2002. In fact, just like you, I was BLESSED to have a lady in scrubs who was on her way to work at the hospital help me out of my van and lay me on the ground and keep me calm. When I think about what she did for me, I wish I could thank her as well. I have no idea who she was.

I had to have part of my intestines and colon removed due to the yank from my seatbelt, but it saved my life. I had to have reconstruction done to the left side of my face, but you can hardly even tell now. It's amazing what doctors can do these days. I had that uncomfortable tube down my throat as well, but mine went into my stomach.

Are we comparing wrecked car pictures? I got that too! My wife and dad took the pictures after it was hauled to the junk yard.

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Don't worry, this will all be a blur in the years to come, but you'll never forget it. Like you said, it's a blessing in disguise. It also helps you learn who your true friends are.

Heal quickly!

Eric
n8dawg
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February 22, 2010
Hey Brad - good to hear from you! Glad you are on the road to recovery. One thing I appreciate about your writing is that is has "perspective", not simply reporting the facts. I know God will use all of our experiences to bless others, even car wrecks. As you rest and heal, know that we look forward to reading your articles to add real perspective to our lives ... something that all of us sports fan(atics) need.

BTW - will your new car also be maroon?

BlazerDawg
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February 22, 2010
Thanks for the update, so good to hear from you, I have 4 kids to, all boys, so now we have at least two things in common. Tough to see dad disabled I know, been there. Its hard laying around while everyone does the work. Someday, thankfully, you and I will still be here to repay someone for what they did for us. God Bless, take your time, enjoy your time healing, a year from now it will have seemed like an instant back when this happened. It will be back to the daily grind, hardly anytime in a day left to look back and reflect on what happened! LOL! Cell phones, email, and tex, not to mention blogs and tweets have that way of eating up a days time.
bulldoggirlinbama
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February 22, 2010
So glad you're home and recovering well. Look forward to hearing what you have to say when you're able to return to work. Stay safe and keep up the good work.
dadawg
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February 22, 2010
BL: It is amazing what we can do together. I am so glad that you are getting better. I will continue to pray for your full recovery.
farley662
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February 22, 2010
Glad to hear you are on he mend Brad. You have been and will remain in my family's prayers.
tupelojoe81
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February 22, 2010
good to hear from you. thanks for sharing your story! get well soon!
ezfreeze
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February 22, 2010
I am glad you are doing better... And people should never underestimate the power of prayer...

GOD speed a full recovery BL...
knoxdog
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February 22, 2010
Brad: wow, what a story and thankfully it has a happy ending. Get well fellow, you are missed!